SHOULD WE BE SHOCKED BY CELEBRITY DEATHS IN BOURDAIN AND SPADE?
In just one week during the month of June 2018, the suicides of American designer Kate Spade & Chef Anthony Bourdain hit the headlines and shocked the world.
My heart goes out to their family and friends, but should we pause and ask whether fame and success is “everything?” People who have a lot less do end their lives too .It was reported that Bourdain’s Mother could not understand her son’s suicide because he had “everything” in life.
Do these headlines and the shocked reactions imply fame and fortune are everything?
In a fathering conference I attended in June, speaker Cassie Carstens from South Africa describes values as things that are important to us, and how they guide our decisions, actions and behaviours. So as much as Bourdain and Spade deserve their “success” in the eyes of the world, it says little about their values.
Here at home, our mainstream media don’t seem that different. Daughter of The Hour Glass founder and socialite Jannie Tay was reported by mainstream media to have pleaded guilty to drug consumption. But aren’t there others who are less wealthy or lesser known who plead guilty to the same charges every other day, but why did TODAY single Audrey Tay out? Does the newspaper think that the rich live more important lives, so when they slip up they deserve to make the news?